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		<title>Screen-saver &#8211; Imtiaz Dharker</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fay Adams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2024 07:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I carry your face in a mobile shrine and I take it out on the Underground. Your digital eyes look into mine. I change at Farringdon and I have changed. Touched by you, my skin is kozo tissue, my hair rose perfumed ink, My eyelids are gold leaf. The woman on my right, reflected in&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>I carry your face in a mobile shrine<br />
and I take it out on the Underground.</em></p>
<p><em>Your digital eyes look into mine.</em><br />
<em>I change at Farringdon and I have changed.</em></p>
<p><em>Touched by you, my skin is kozo tissue,</em><br />
<em>my hair rose perfumed ink,</em></p>
<p><em>My eyelids are gold leaf.</em><br />
<em>The woman on my right,</em></p>
<p><em>reflected in the window opposite,</em><br />
<em>takes on the stillness of an icon,</em></p>
<p><em>The boy across the way</em><br />
<em>lifts his cheek to be pure marble</em></p>
<p><em>sculpted in living light. Together,</em><br />
<em>we travel on into the night,</em></p>
<p><em>all of us grown precious,</em><br />
<em>each of us alive and rare.</em></p>
<p>by Imtiaz Dharker<br />
Have you ever experienced a moment where everything seems to shine as if luminous? Maybe when sitting looking out at a city scene or when looking at an expansive view of mountains or the sea, or when watching children playing…</p>
<p><a href="https://imtiazdharker.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Imtiaz Dharker</a>, who is a Pakistan-born British poet, artist and video film maker, experiences such a moment through an intimacy with loss. Somehow the awareness of life’s transience brings an acute, luminous, extra-ordinary quality to her perception, as if, I imagine, the air in the tube were charged with effervescence.</p>
<p>We trundle along most of the time in a trance characterised by narrow, calcified tracks of habitual thinking. But, once in a while, something cuts through this and the world springs into magnificent life almost like it’s super-charged.</p>
<p>This can be catalysed by intense life events, spiritual buildings – like cathedrals (stained glass windows evoke this quality I think), poetry, art, films and natural beauty. But it can also become more available in our lives through mindful presence and heart opening compassion.</p>
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<p>Ps. If you’d like to taste how poetry can evoke mindfulness and open heartedness, check out these two upcoming opportunities:</p>
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<li><a href="https://www.mindfulnessassociation.net/course/mindfulness-meets-mystical-poetry/">Mindfulness meets Mystical Poetry</a> 6 week course (May)</li>
<li><a href="https://www.mindfulnessassociation.net/course/mindfulness-meets-mystical-poetry/">Mindfulness meets Mystical Poetry</a> 6 week course (September)</li>
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<p>And if you’d like to begin your mindfulness journey at the beginning, try our <a href="https://www.mindfulnessassociation.net/mindfulness-courses/mindfulness-level-one/">Level 1 Being Present</a> course.</p>
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		<title>The Unbroken &#8211; Rashani Réa</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristine Mackenzie-Janson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2021 11:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Words of Wonder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[acceptance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[awakening]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[There is a brokenness out of which comes the unbroken, a shatteredness out of which blooms the unshatterable. There is a sorrow beyond all grief that leads to joy and a fragility out of whose depths emerges strength. There is a hollow space too vast for words through which we pass with each loss, out&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>There is a brokenness out of which comes the unbroken,</em><br />
<em>a shatteredness out of which blooms the unshatterable.</em><br />
<em>There is a sorrow beyond all grief that leads to joy</em><br />
<em>and a fragility out of whose depths emerges strength.</em></p>
<p><em>There is a hollow space too vast for words through which we pass with each loss,</em><br />
<em>out of whose darkness we are sanctioned into being.</em></p>
<p><em>There is a cry deeper than all sound whose serrated edges cut the heart</em><br />
<em>as we break open to the place inside which is unbreakable and whole,</em><br />
<em>while learning to sing.</em></p>
<p>by Rashani Réa</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>This poem has been in my collection for a while, and this week it jumped out as the one to share as an important reminder in times of challenge or darkness. Reading a little around the <a href="https://www.rashani.com/arts/classic-books" target="_blank" rel="noopener">poem</a>, it sounds like it came out of the depths of <a href="https://www.rashani.com/about/rashani-rea-bio" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Rashani</a>&#8216;s life, and the words themselves have found their way into many <a href="https://www.rashani.com/arts/poems/poems-by-rashani/the-unbroken" target="_blank" rel="noopener">other books</a> on grief and healing since they were first written in 1991.</p>
<p>May they continue to inspire and support whoever reaches for them in times of moving &#8216;<a href="https://www.mindfulnessassociation.net/words-of-wonder/blessing-the-boats-lucille-clifton/">through this, to that</a>&#8216;&#8230;</p>
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<p>PS Compassion, and self-compassion, are so important in times of difficulty. If you&#8217;re looking for a supportive place to train further in compassion, <a href="https://www.mindfulnessassociation.net/course/compassion-online-email-course/">this</a> could be a place to start, and diving in deeply can happen <a href="https://www.mindfulnessassociation.net/mindfulness-courses/mindfulness-level-two/">Mindfulness Level 2 &#8211; Responding with Compassion</a>&#8230;</p>
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